Link Madness

I just spent an hour and a half trying to figure out how to make my links open new windows, and finally found out how, but now I am not sure I want to do it since it seems to annoy some poeple.

Personally I like having a new window open with a link. Let me know your preference if you have one.

I tried copying the little button Atrios has for choosing if you want new windows, but it didn't work when I put it in my template and I am no programming whiz, that is for sure.